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lamartine
Joined: 29 Mar 2006 Posts: 17
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Posted: Sun May 07, 2006 4:53 pm Post subject: sex on 2nd date |
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okay, y'all. so i did something stupid. i've been out twice with a new guy that i really like. yesterday, we went to an all-day event at which there was unlimited food an alcohol. we spent an AMAZING day together, and at the end of the night, i had had a little too much to drink (as had he), and i slept with him. i NEVER do that. the thing is, i really like this guy. do you think the fact that i did that so early automatically dooms this? |
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Red
Joined: 26 Mar 2004 Posts: 196
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Posted: Mon May 08, 2006 11:01 am Post subject: |
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I wouldn't say it automatucally dooms it. Holding out does make it easier to trust someone though, when a guys sees that a girls gives it up fast when she's drunk he thinks she probably would do that for other guys too. |
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lamartine
Joined: 29 Mar 2006 Posts: 17
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Posted: Mon May 08, 2006 2:55 pm Post subject: |
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okay, so i have an update. last night he called and said that he thought this was a bad way to start something out and that we should scale it back. then he said he would call me today. what to make of this? |
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Josmusical
Joined: 07 May 2006 Posts: 34 Location: Leeds, UK
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Posted: Mon May 08, 2006 2:57 pm Post subject: |
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maybe he will ask if you 2 can start again, make a fresh start.
i am not saying he will but he might.
keep us informed |
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SFguy
Joined: 26 Mar 2004 Posts: 155
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Posted: Mon May 08, 2006 9:51 pm Post subject: |
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It doesn't sound that great, most guys wouldn't complain about having sex to fast. |
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NKD SWMR
Joined: 15 Nov 2006 Posts: 17 Location: Midwest
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Posted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 3:34 pm Post subject: |
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can we skip our first date and go right to the second? |
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Ciprian
Joined: 18 Dec 2006 Posts: 7 Location: San Diego, California
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Posted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 12:25 pm Post subject: |
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This is a mistake you've made but don't worry if you are meant for eachother the sex on the 2 date doesn't matter at all. |
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vanessabg
Joined: 27 Dec 2006 Posts: 61
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Posted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 1:25 pm Post subject: |
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Yes we can skip our first date and go for the second rightly. |
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