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And that overwhelmingly important element of evoking in a woman attraction for a man is RESPECT. Indeed, a woman will not be attracted to a man unless she respects him. Respect means admiring a man's personality, lifestyle, values, goals, and the choices he makes in his everyday life. Respect makes a man both physically and mentally attractive to a woman. This explains why most women are not attracted to men who are vain - those guys who just stand at a bar and look "pretty" in their nice clothes. This also explains why women laugh at the overly "ripped" guys at a gym, who think that they are all that, when in fact they are often the objects of mockery.

Earning respect is a must, but it cannot be achieved by being vain, narcissistic, self-absorbed, or arrogant. Respect must be earned the right way, and the good news is that demonstrating those qualities of yours that will get you the respect and attention from the opposite sex can be a fun experience.

To earn respect in any situation where want to meet and attract a woman, whether in the real world or on-line, you must show that you are: (1) interesting (2) different; and (3) funny. An interesting man has interesting thoughts, opinions, views and hopes on a wide range of matters that he shares with a worthy company.

A man who is different, distinguishes himself from most other guys by being better - being more educated, more soft spoken, having a better style, and most importantly - making a better use of his free time. Among other things, he is not one of those guys who would drink at a bar for 5 hours.

A man who is funny, has a sophisticated, witty sense of humor. His sarcastic nature and affinity for engaging in a fun banter makes him irresistable to those women who are cool and interesting.