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lamartine
Joined: 29 Mar 2006
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 Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 11:05 am Post subject: jealousy |
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thank you in advance for your help.
my boyfriend and i dated for almost seven months, and then he broke up with me because he wasn't sure he wanted to be in a relationship. three weeks ago, we got back together after being apart for two and a half months.
this next weekend, he is going to a wedding. he went to another wedding while we were apart, and he had a minor fling there with another girl. he never called her again, and they didn't keep in touch. this girl will be at this second wedding.
i am very hurt that he didn't invite me, especially since he is a groomsman, and i am worried about this girl. i told him that i was worried that the reason he didn't invite me was because this girl was going to be there. he told me he resented the accusation (i didn't think i was making an accusation) and that he could say no to getting together with her again if the opportunity arose. for some reason, though, i still don't feel comfortable. he told me he had never seen the jealous side of me before (which is true. i have never worried about him cheating. he goes out with friends and on guys trips all the time and it has never bothered me before.) and that he knew i "would change" once we got back together.
he says the reason he didn't invite me to the wedding is because it is a ten hour drive away, he has activities planned with friends, he knew i couldn't get off work. these things are all true, but i still know that, this being a casual wedding, he could have invited me if he wanted to.
janice--this is eating away at me, and i think he is a little mad at me for being upset (even though i haven't brought it up again). am i wrong to think that i should have been invited to this event? do you think i should be worried about this other girl?
please help me,
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Red
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| Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 7:47 pm Post subject: |
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| He gave a pretty good reason why he didn't invite you, I wouldn't worry about it. Just call him and keep in touch while he's at the reception |
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flybirdie
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| Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 8:54 am Post subject: |
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| I wouldn't worry to much about the other girl, but be should have invited you, thats just wrong |
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vanessabg
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| Posted: Thu Dec 28, 2006 10:25 am Post subject: Re: jealousy |
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| You should not be worried about this other girl when your partner sincere to you and he also gave reasons to you which are pretty fair. |
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