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LoveLife · Joined: 26 Mar 2004 Posts: 2

I have a crush on a friend, he has been one of my best friends for years. Sould i risk the friendship???

SFguy · Joined: 26 Mar 2004 Posts: 155

All i know id if things don't work out the friendship will never be the same, it may me worth the risk though

trapt · Joined: 02 Jun 2004 Posts: 4

I say give it a shot!

Kelex · Joined: 26 Mar 2004 Posts: 6

I tried it once, worked out very bad for me

Datingcritic · Joined: 22 Mar 2005 Posts: 10

I've done it... It's hard... I basically told her how I felt and got shot down... It took a long time, over a year, but we actually became closer friends ironically...

If you don't make something happen, you'll hurt inside.. If you do, you may hurt outside for a while, but you'll get over it hopefully...

I used the passive, "Look, there's more here then meets the eye, and I'm not sure if you've noticed" approach... at least then you can check out a reaction subtley, and react to it rather then... "Look I'm all over you, and you don't know it", which tends to crash and burn a bit harder and faster...

Let me know how it goes...

LB

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