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[Judy229]

hope i can get
advice here. sorry if this isn't the spot for that. I slept with my
friends bf. I know it's bad. And I am ashamed.
However there are some extenuarting circumstances. She's a good friend
and very supportive. But sorta a b****. One of those girls that always
has a bf. very condesending at times. I broke up with my bf over a
year ago and haven't been with anyone since. She was supportive. But
some of her support was condesending. In order to get a new man, in
her words, i needed to lose weight, get new clothes. i needed to know
how to please a man. she was being supportive. but i found it hurtful
to an extent.

Then her guy hits on me! i tried to resist, but he really put on the
charm and seduced me. i caved in. i fell for his bs. anyway, i hadn't
been with anyone in over a year and it was pretty wonderful.

I do feel bad. but at the same time im like, if i was overweight and
in need of new clothes, why didn't your bf mind? and if you knew how
to please a man, why was he hitting on me?

i cut it off with him. but am wondering if i should tell her and
apologize or just forget about it. she thinks he's the one.

[Red]

You should definately tell her, she needs to know abou it. I would forgive my friends if they told me right away, but to not tell me is the worst thing they could do to me.

[sungirl]

did you ever tell her?

[bizdating5]

You should tell her if you are a true friend ..