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[mattao]

Im a college freshmen and I have this plan to ask out this girl that sits next to me in a class so let me know if it is a good plan.
This is all supposed to happen in a week.

Im going to skip class on a monday and then on a wednesday ask to borrow her notes then at the end of class i will thank her for letting me use her notes and then introduce myself and get her name and stuff then on a friday i will say hello to her and after class catch up to her and ask her out.

It sounds like a good plan to me but im still scared of doing it if there is a diffrent way let me know ASAP.

[Red]

not a bad idea, but what words are you going to say when you ask her out?

[mattao]

i was thinking about saying " i know we just met but would you like to go out this weekend?"

How does that sound?

[bgan10]

i think the idea sounds to much like it's from a movie, you need to get vibes from the girl and make a bit more contact before you have a good shot at her saying yes. you want to make some kind of contact with her, so the notes thing is ok but it's all the talk with her around the borrowing of the notes that is key. little confident banter works well. the vibes you get from her there will lead you to either just ask or maybe wait a little longer to build a base

[SFguy]

I think instead of making it sound so much as a date say something after class like "I'm starving I'm going to get something to eat, do you want come?"

[vanessabg]

It 's fine if you do that in a proper way but what words are going to say when you ask her out.