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[hopelessromantic]

hey guys, here's my situation

i've liked this girl for a while, but she doesn't like me back, at least not the same way, even though she knows i like her. I wanna ask her out on a date, but i don't know if it's gonna be weird since she's not really into me and knows i like her. I know if i ask her to go do something, she'll bring her friends, who are mostly males. so i have to ask her in a way where she'll know it's a date. anywhoo, what would be the best way to go about asking her to a date? i was thinkin about doing something cool with vegan cupcakes since she just recently turned vegan and is missing cupcakes. anyone have any ideas?

[SFguy]

You said "but she doesn't like me back", what happened to make you believe that? It sounds like you are setting yourself up for a turn down if you say she's not interested.

[hopelessromantic]

i asked her if she was interested in anyone, and she said no?

[SFguy]

Okay that's not so bad, it's an odd question, so it was the only thing she really could say. You may want to try doing it in a way that is more casual rather that saying it's a date. Like saying you're hungry or you want a drink and asking if she wants to come along.

[sungirl]

Do you talk to her often? I think giving her something will seem like you are trying to hard. The easiet way is asking her what she doing on the weekend, if she says nothing, then just ask her out.

[bigbill]

So, how'd it go, you ask her?

[vanessabg]

[quote="SFguy"]You said "but she doesn't like me back", what happened to make you believe that? It sounds like you are setting yourself up for a turn down if you say she's not interested.[/quote]
I think she is not interested to you and just forget her try to find out another sincere girl friend.