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LoveLife
Joined: 26 Mar 2004 Posts: 2
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 8:48 am Post subject: crush on a friend |
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I have a crush on a friend, he has been one of my best friends for years. Sould i risk the friendship??? |
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SFguy
Joined: 26 Mar 2004 Posts: 155
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 11:32 am Post subject: |
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All i know id if things don't work out the friendship will never be the same, it may me worth the risk though |
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trapt
Joined: 02 Jun 2004 Posts: 4
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Posted: Thu Jun 03, 2004 9:34 am Post subject: |
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I say give it a shot! |
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Kelex
Joined: 26 Mar 2004 Posts: 6
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Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 10:41 am Post subject: |
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I tried it once, worked out very bad for me |
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Datingcritic
Joined: 22 Mar 2005 Posts: 10
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Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2005 12:54 pm Post subject: Risking the Friend |
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I've done it... It's hard... I basically told her how I felt and got shot down... It took a long time, over a year, but we actually became closer friends ironically...
If you don't make something happen, you'll hurt inside.. If you do, you may hurt outside for a while, but you'll get over it hopefully...
I used the passive, "Look, there's more here then meets the eye, and I'm not sure if you've noticed" approach... at least then you can check out a reaction subtley, and react to it rather then... "Look I'm all over you, and you don't know it", which tends to crash and burn a bit harder and faster...
Let me know how it goes...
LB
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